Tips for Raise Cash for a Wedding

Tips for Raise Cash for a Wedding. About how my wedding would cost more than my college education . There is no doubt that a wedding is an extremely expensive affair, and recently I read that many people are taking out loans to pay for their weddings. I also heard of an extremely egregious story of a woman who took nearly $200,000 out of the equity of her home to pay for her dream wedding in a castle in France. Since many of my friends are getting married this year, I felt that I should write an article about how to raise cash for a wedding if your parents are not footing the bill.

Start Saving and Planning Early - When my husband and I visited venues for our wedding, I overheard a couple say that they saved for six months to get enough cash for a deposit on the venue. Then they booked a wedding date two years in the future so that they could save for the rest. This is a venue that charged $1500 for a deposit and about $7000 for the entire event. I think this young couple definitely had the right idea. They knew that it took them six months to save $1500, and they could save the rest in two years and pay it off on their wedding date. They are also wise in booking their venue early because this year the venue they chose raised prices by 16%, but they were able to lock into the lower price last year.

Consider Asking for Cash Gifts - In a previous article about Chinese culture I mentioned that we prefer to give cash gifts. On our wedding invitations to friends and family we gave information for our gift registry and also said that red envelopes are welcome. As a result we received quite a good amount of cash gifts which we appreciated very much. Depending on the size of your wedding and the generosity of your guests, sometimes it is possible to fund an entire wedding just by cash gifts. In China most weddings are paid for upfront by a groom's family, but the hosts are generally able to recover their expenses from the guests they invite.

Get Corporate Sponsorship - I heard about this idea a couple years ago. Some brides and grooms are "selling out" their weddings to corporate sponsorship. For example, some brides have invitations sponsored by paper companies and indicate the company's names in the invitations. Others turned their wedding into a giant marketing event in a ballpark to reduce the costs. This may seem tacky, but you could have a large event on a small budget because many things are paid for by sponsors. It still takes time and effort to find willing sponsors if you are willing to go this route. It basically turns your special day into a giant marketing event.

The bottom line is that starting a married life together with wedding debt is probably not the best idea. It may take years to pay off a debt incurred in one day, and that may make that wedding day not such a sweet memory.

Wedding Ideas to prepare great wedding party

Wedding Dress at the first store I walked into, I tried on a dress I thought I loved. It was a bit above my price range and the lady was a little pushy, so I decided to browse another store. I ended up taking the floor sample of another dress, one I really loved, and because it was the floor sample (50% off), it met my budget! Don't get sucked into buying a dress that's more than you can afford. Just because it's your wedding dress doesn't mean it's a free pass to overspend. You still have to pay for it, and once the day is over, you'll wonder why it was so important for you to get that dress. Take your time and look around. Be open to used wedding dresses or floor samples, as well as renting. Don't bother looking at dresses beyond your price range -- sooner or later you'll find a dress that you'll absolutely love. There is a "perfect" dress at any price range.

wedding Ring

Those who know me already know why I didn't get a diamond engagement ring. I did research eco jewelry and synthetic diamonds, but decided I really didn't want an engagement ring at all.

Wedding Banquet

There's no beating the price for a Chinese wedding banquet, and the food is delicious. They provide the seat covers, free. They provide a sound system and microphones, free. They provide a screen (for slide shows), free. There is no corkage fee (we brought Two-Buck Chucks from Trader Joe's). There is no cake cutting fee. It's not necessary to put up a lot of decorations because it's a restaurant -- it's already decorated (unlike most banquet halls in hotels). Our menu: 10 course meal plus dessert.

Wedding Shoes

I know someone who spent thousands on a pair of Manolo Blahniks to wear on her wedding day. Even if you have a dress that doesn't cover your feet, it'll still be overshadowed by your hair, makeup, and dress. Unless you're loaded and have the money to burn, it's not worth spending a fortune just for the shoes. If you're willing to spend that much on shoes, go ahead and get a pair that you'd wear down the streets of New York City, a la Carrie Bradshaw. For your wedding, a cheap pair of strappy sandals (I did flip flops), would truly make little difference.

wedding registry

It was a no brainer for us to not register for gifts. Cash is what most Chinese guests like to give (we're practical like that), and for any friends who asked, we confirmed that we weren't registered anywhere and asked for cash gifts if they felt inclined to give something. Cash means we don't get anything we don't really need. Saves us the hassle of having to return anything.

wedding ceremony

We skipped the "walk down the aisle" production. That saved several thousand for space rental and decorations. Instead, we took a weekend trip to San Francisco and got married at their beautiful City Hall. On the wedding day, we went to Caltech to shoot pretty photos. Skipping the ceremony also means I didn't need bridesmaids, and all the costs associated with it (and my friends didn't have to "work" at my wedding either!).

wedding honeymoon

We skipped the honeymoon. We both like to travel and know that we'll plan a trip for the two of us when it's a good time (and a good deal). Granted, we dated for 8 years before getting married, so we don't necessarily need that time away.

Wedding Centerpieces and Favors

We skipped the fancy centerpieces. Flowers and vases are expensive -- even if you try to DIY. I bought 20 baskets from downtown for $2 each, and filled it up with candy and cookies for the guests to snack on while waiting for the food. We also skipped the favors. We decided guests don't really want or need to bring something back with them that has our name and wedding date on it. Instead, we placed note cards with markers and stickers for guests to write us a note, so we can have keepsakes from each of the guests.

wedding entertainment

We skipped the DJ, and asked two of our friends to be MC's to faciliate a game that involved audience participation. Traditionally, the guests request a bride and groom kiss by tapping their chopsticks against their plates (it makes quite a racket). We made it into a kissing raffle -- everytime the guests started tapping on the plates, we picked a couple's name out of a bowl and that couple had to go up on stage and kiss. Then we would imitate them. It lasted throughout the evening and everyone was entertained.

Solid Sterling Silver Wedding Ring

Solid Sterling Silver Cubic Zirconia Rhodium Plated 2 Piece Wedding Ring with Round Center Stone & Princess Cut Channel Set Cubic Zirconia Stones

Beautiful Wedding Cake : Caterer

It is important that the wedding cake tastes absolutely divine. It is not just a dessert, but also plays an integral part in the décor. Therefore, it is important that it is placed in a location where it is visible to all. Have you considered the centre of the room and have all the tables around it?

After the Wedding Cake cutting ceremony, the cake and table can be moved and the floor can be used for dancing. It will also be a great cue to announce the first dance of the newly married. Have your best man clean the floor and get rid of all the icing that might have dropped to the floor, because it can become very slippery and also dangerous. You might also decide to place the cake in the corner with pin lights highlighting the cake’s glory.

Just as the queen sits on her throne, the wedding cake needs the same to hold its creation. Think of a beautiful frame around a painting, you should decorate the wedding cake table to complement its wonderful confection. You don’t have to spend endless hours decorating the table for the wedding cake and it also doesn’t have to be expensive. Something in the back of your cupboard might be appropriate enough. Take a lace cloth, for example; drape it across the table and there you have it. When you billow tulle on the table and place the cake on top of it, what do you end up with? You get the impression that your wedding cake is floating on clouds.

Garden Wedding Tips and Ideas

You have to keep one thing in mind, though and that is that you must keep it elegant and simple. Keep reading, because you will find great suggestions if you want to experience the greatest garden wedding.
Garden wedding planning can prove to be lots of fun. If this setting is what you are looking for, then know that it offers the most sensual and also the most romantic location to enjoy this special day.

Instead of using the traditional wedding cake topper, consider using a floral wedding cake topper.
What also add elegance are monogrammed linens.
A birdbath could be great. Guest can use this and make special wishes for you as a couple by throwing petals or pennies into it.
Join trees by stringing white lights across them.
Whatever theme you are going with, name the table for example, Ladybird, Butterfly, Lightning Bug, Dragonfly or Firefly.
If you are using chair covers, tie them with white sashes, and before you tie each knot, place a flower bud and then tighten. Roses are strong flowers and they would work for this setting quite perfectly.
Consider a band and not a DJ.
If you can find a dance group, the May Day performance will be perfect.
If you are serving coffee, use vintage teacups and matching saucers. You will be able to pick them up from flea markets. Don’t neglect the cups and saucers with chips. These are perfect!
Keep the invitations very simple. Pressed flowers or petals tied on hand-made paper will do the trick.

Consider various shades of only one colour accented with crème or white. This makes a very striking and visual combination.
Try using delicate fabrics and lots of it. You can find solid linens with added vintage overlays at flea markets that can help present a very unforgettable statement.
Hand-painted terracotta flowerpots containing seedlings great-looking favours.
What also adds whimsy is setting the tables with large-clear jugs filled with sweet tea, punch or lemonade.
Make sure you keep the menu as simple as you can. A grilling favorite is known to be the easiest and most affordable route to take.
If you have any tall trees around the garden, try decorating them with lights. The colour of the lights can match the colour of your dress. Place cards can be hand-written and tied neatly with a ribbon to the tree. Your guests can now pick these.
Decorate the trellis with ivy, fresh flowers and Spanish moss. This will create a perfect focal point. If it could be possible, you can use the trellis in the reception area and place the wedding cake underneath the table.

Wedding Tips for Beautiful Centerpieces

Planning a wedding is a lot of work and you should start a few months before the actual wedding date. There is so much to consider, but what many people fail to include in the big plans are the centerpieces. These are important as it is what everyone is going to notice, so in order for you to determine what you will use, you will first have to think of the type of wedding you are having, but here are a few tips that might help you

Groom-Bride : Wedding Ceremony

If you do not have a coordinator, I will line you up, and tell you when to begin walking down the isle. If you have a coordinator, I will communicate with them to insure everything goes as planned.

I have many appropriate songs for the wedding ceremony; from traditional, to not so traditional. When we do the agenda the week of the event, together we will discuss all the music that will be used during your wedding ceremony.

As People Arrive.

When the Groom and Bride. (Sometimes Groomsmen as well) For the Seating of Grandparents and Parents. As Bridesmaids enter. (With or without Groomsmen) Bridal March for Bride and Father. (Traditional or not so traditional) For the Lighting of the Unity Candle. (Not always done)

Wedding Photo Gallery

Wedding Photo Gallery

Wedding Photo

Wedding Photo

Weeding Idea - Gift Ideas For The Bride

Now if you want to get more creative – think about how much everyone loves to be pampered – especially a stressed-out bride! Gift certificates for spas, pedicures or a massage are fabulous – especially when combined with one of our pampering gift sets. Lavender scented therapeutic animal slippers with a gift certificate for a pedicure – or Bonjour Fleurette flower slippers, eye mask and gift set. Travel totes, makeup bags, are great gifts- and something special and personal can always be placed inside – think Castelbel luxury soaps from Portugal. Life’s grand occasions calls for special gifts. Bridal jewelry always falls into this exclusive category. If the bride has dropped a subtle hint than by all means go for it before someone else does, or choose a piece she can wear at the rehearsal dinner or on other evening occasions. For a more traditional bride, browse our collection of classic pearl earrings, bracelets, or pearl necklaces – a must have for any stylish woman.

Flowers and Decoration for Wedding Idea

We are talking to the bride AND the groom! A romantic thing for the groom to do is have arrangements of flowers sent to the bride's home, the parents' homes AND, if you really want your bride to know you are a classey gentleman, have flowers in the honeymoon suite awaiting your arrival. Add a bottle of champagne, wine or non-alcoholic wine (the same brand as served at the wedding)and you're promised a wonderful feeling. To keep that romance going, write down the names and colors of the flowers and file it. On your anniversaries, pull out that list and call your favorite florist. Too, the new bride or wife can order a fresh boutonniere to be present in your room on the honeymoon and all of your anniversaries to come. I once had a bride who had a passion for gardenias. Fortunately she was sensible and recognized that gardenias have a powerful fragrance. One should consider twice before using them in abundance as centerpieces for the dinner tables. Actually one should avoid any floral fragrance that is going to compete with the aromas and flavors of the food. The bride flew her wedding party into San Francisco and hosted them at the world famous Pan Pacific Hotel(Sue Robbins 415 771 8600). The bride and groom ordered gardenias floating in shallow water filled clear glass containers and sent to the rooms of the parents and the wedding party. Later, I called the florist and ordered similar gardenia arrangements to be placed on the couple's nightstand of their honeymoon suite in Bora Bora.
We planned many weddings at The Hamlin Mansion in San Francisco. But one stands out in memory: The ceremony was to take place ina large round room, the very center of the mansion. Leading off from the central room were five rooms with doors that opened into them. In these rooms the guests would have a formal sitdown dinner after the ceremony and cocktail reception in the center room. At one of our meetings with the florist I listened carefully and took notes as the bride selected the colors and types of flowers to be used in the bouquets and centerpieces. Her flowers of choice were wonderful shades of purple, violet and lavender. Upon returning to the JWI Salon on Post Street in downtown San Francisco, I called the caterer
and suggested that instead of the serving staff bringing out the
salads and placing them on the table after the guests were seated, that instead we have the salads in place before the guests came into the room AND that the chef put radicchio in the salad (for those on a more restricted budget purple cabbage works just as well). The doors to the dining rooms were opened to drum rolls and trumpets playing Vivaldi's Trumpet Fanfare. The sight was all but overwhelming and quite dramatic. The attention of the guests was drawn to the dining rooms. The tables looked like fabulous bouquets. Today all professional caterers use flowers that not only enhance the dining tables or serving trays but are also edible. And, it doesn't add a penny to the cost! Now, mind you, be tasteful! Use the flowers to accentuate a dish, not to overwhelm it. After all, you don't want your guests going away talking about how they ate your bridal bouquet.

Speaking of bouquets, have you considered saving this once (well,
maybe twice) in a life time floral arrangement that is so special to you on your wedding day? Do at least think about it. One of the nation's experts in proper floral preservation is Sentimental Reasons They have clients internationally. Your bouquet can be shipped overnight to them. The bouquet and boutonniere are taken apart, freeze dried and then reassembled as originally designed in a framed format or recreated into a beautiful centerpiece.

Personalizing your wedding means making certain that your loved ones (your parents and wedding party) are not forgotten. Remember, they've been your esprit de corps in your months of planning. Have floral arrangements in their hotel rooms or at their home the day before the wedding. For a special affect, have the florist use the same flowers that will be in the wedding bouquets and arrangements. Don't forget to enclose a "love note"; remember, we are "personalizing" your wedding.


Is your wedding or reception taking place in the town hall, the local Elks' Lodge or Knights of Columbus Hall? Not to worry. Cover those pictured covered walls with hanging drapes of fabric from ceiling to floor. Use a color that compliments your wedding flowers and attendants' dresses. Later the fabric can be sewn into table clothes and given as gifts. For an even more dramatic flare, uplight the walls...."wash" them in color.

Garden Wedding Tips and Ideas

Consider various shades of only one colour accented with crème or white. This makes a very striking and visual combination.
Try using delicate fabrics and lots of it. You can find solid linens with added vintage overlays at flea markets that can help present a very unforgettable statement.
Hand-painted terracotta flowerpots containing seedlings great-looking favours.
What also adds whimsy is setting the tables with large-clear jugs filled with sweet tea, punch or lemonade.
Make sure you keep the menu as simple as you can. A grilling favorite is known to be the easiest and most affordable route to take.
If you have any tall trees around the garden, try decorating them with lights. The colour of the lights can match the colour of your dress. Place cards can be hand-written and tied neatly with a ribbon to the tree. Your guests can now pick these.
Decorate the trellis with ivy, fresh flowers and Spanish moss. This will create a perfect focal point. If it could be possible, you can use the trellis in the reception area and place the wedding cake underneath the table.
Instead of using the traditional wedding cake topper, consider using a floral wedding cake topper.
What also add elegance are monogrammed linens.
A birdbath could be great. Guest can use this and make special wishes for you as a couple by throwing petals or pennies into it.
Join trees by stringing white lights across them.
Whatever theme you are going with, name the table for example, Ladybird, Butterfly, Lightning Bug, Dragonfly or Firefly.
If you are using chair covers, tie them with white sashes, and before you tie each knot, place a flower bud and then tighten. Roses are strong flowers and they would work for this setting quite perfectly.
Consider a band and not a DJ.
If you can find a dance group, the May Day performance will be perfect.
If you are serving coffee, use vintage teacups and matching saucers. You will be able to pick them up from flea markets. Don’t neglect the cups and saucers with chips. These are perfect!
Keep the invitations very simple. Pressed flowers or petals tied on hand-made paper will do the trick.

For example South Afrika Garden Wedding Tips and Ideas

Gone Fishing Porcelain Wedding Cake Topper - Caucasian Couple

Gone Fishing Porcelain Wedding Cake Topper - Caucasian Couple

Wedding Accesories : Wedding Shoes

Here you can see about shoes, do you know why i am post this picture in wedding accesories title.
it's because shoes is one of common thing in wedding.